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03
Nov
09

books

I am not a multi-tasker but I do tend to be a multi-reader. Juggling several books at one time is not unusual for me.  Although I’ve just started them, the two newest editions to my collection promise to be good reads!
Donald Miller
Donald Miller begins A Million Miles In A Thousand Years proposing how “the saddest thing about life is you don’t remember half of it.” I for one agree with him. Yet every life is a story worth telling because every life has meaning and purpose.  Miller is given a unique opportunity to literally edit his own story.

Markus Zusak

Markus Zusak opens his NY times bestseller, The Book Thief, by asserting “a small fact – you are going to die.” At this point, all I know is – Death is his story’s narrator.

22
Sep
09

at a theater near you

posterthumbWell it has finally happened. Tucker Max’s best selling book, I hope They Serve Beer In Hell, has been made into a movie and hits theaters in just a few days. Now, I read a lot of books — many listed on the NY Times best-seller list. And I’m the first to support an individual’s right to express themselves in whatever medium they choose. And normally, I refuse to critique books I haven’t actually read or movies I haven’t seen….but in this case I make an exception. This is just my opinion – but I cannot see anything positive or redeeming in the kind of reckless and remorseless debauchery that is apparently represented and promoted in Max’s literature or film. Clearly, Tucker Max disagrees. In the introduction to his book he writes,

“My name is Tucker Max, and I am an a******. I get excessively drunk at inappropriate times, disregard social norms, indulge every whim, ignore the consequences of my actions, mock idiots and posers, sleep with more women than is safe or reasonable, and just generally act like a raging d*******. But, I do contribute to humanity in one very important way: I share my adventures with the world.”

Giving credit where credit is due, Tucker is at least honest about himself and his behavior. Alot of people will no doubt laugh at his degenerate antics but the notion that Tucker Max is somehow contributing to humanity is in itself a joke.

“The way of a fool seems right to him.” -Proverbs 12:15

02
Aug
09

my heart came home with me

09 San Fran_0071_edited-1Tony B may have left his heart in San Francisco but after 5 days there – I brought mine back with me. Don’t get me wrong, Margie and I loved the city – it’s very interesting and quite beautiful but let’s face it…there is no place like sweet home Chicago.   After doing A LOT of walking in San Fran, I couldn’t help but wonder, “who was the knucklehead that thought building a city on rolling hills was a good idea?”  I almost lost my mind a couple times and finally declared, “I’m done with walking these stinking hills, we’re getting a taxi.”   We also took advantage of riding a cable car – which every other single tourist does in San Fran – apparently at the exact same time.  So riding them is not particularly an advantage in terms of getting around – but it is fun.  FYI – the trip was in celebration of our 25th wedding anniversary [coming in Nov] and we had a great time. We visited all the tourist spots, Chinatown, Alcatraz, Napa, Pier41, Grace Cathedral [where I actually sat, rested and prayed about my bad attitude regarding the stupid hills and endless walking], etc.  And although Mark Twain never actually said, “The coldest winter I ever spent was summer in San Francisco,” he should have…because it is very chilly in and around the city this time of year. If you’ve never been there – it’s worth a visit. We took too many pictures to actually share…so I found a promo [odd but effective] which includes most of the stuff we saw…sans the hula dancers. 

25
Jul
09

that’s why they call it fishing

So I just got home from a fishing trip to Alabama. That may surprise many who know me. I’m not a particularly “outdoorsy” kind of guy. But I do like to fish – especially when it’s with a long-time childhood friend who is a fishing guru – seriously he’s a fish magnet. Overall we caught a ton of crappe and bass although we did go through a 24hr period where not much was biting–which is “why they call it fishing not catching.”  We were relentless and eventually the action picked up again. This is no fish story. Below is a cooler full of one day’s catch. 

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All this got me to thinking how life is sometimes like fishing — productive and exciting one moment and slow and frustrating the next. The key to success is perseverance. If you’re doing the right things the right way eventually the payoff will follow.   Thanks Jim for a great time!

17
Jul
09

spiritual lethargy and us

BOOK_AcediaOut of the many books I’ve read of late, Kathleen Norris’ text entitled Acedia & me has helped to idenify and clarify for me something we all struggle with at one time or another.  Acedia, as defined by standard dictionaries is apathy, boredom, topor or what the monastics refered to as ‘the noonday demon.’  At its greek root, the word acedia means the absence of care. The person afflicted with it refuses to or is incapable of caring. Originally listed as ‘sloth’ [number 7 of the deadliest sins], acedia is more than just laziness. It is a spiritual apathy that can overshadow our lives. Norris suggests it rests at the core of much of our restless boredom, frantic escapism, commitment phobia, and enervating despair. Could acedia be the malady that plagues Christians today and keeps us from full and passionate living?
If you’ve ever struggled with a sense of spiritual lethargy, I endorse this book. Norris takes a close historical, biblical, scientific, practical and personal look at the issue.
FYI – this is not an easy read per se in that it takes some time to consider and absorb what Norris is writing. It is, however, worth the effort. She openly shares her joys, disappointments, and suffering in life and how acedia seeks to effect them all.  Her story will resonate deeply with our common human experiences. When her husband became terminally ill, Norris writes how during the last year of his life her most ‘spiritual’ activity was cleaning out his urinals and commodes. Here is an excerpt from Norris’ thoughts on grace…

The comedy of grace is that it often comes to us as loss, sorrow, and foul-smelling waste; if it came as gain, gladness, and sweetly scented flowers, we would not be grateful. We would, as we are wont to do, take personal credit for the unwarranted gifts of God. It is easy to be attracted to the idea of grace—which one dictionary defines as ‘divine love and protection bestowed freely on people’ – but much harder to recognize this grace when it comes as pain and unwelcome change. In the depths of our confusion and anger, we ask: ‘How can this be God’s love? Where is God in this disaster?’ For grace to be grace, it must give us things we didn’t know we needed and take us to places where we didn’t want to go. As we stumble through the crazily altered landscape of our lives, we find that God is enjoying our attention as never before. And maybe that’s the point. It is a divine comedy.

10
Jul
09

no bull

It’s that time again when Pamplona Spain is packed with people from around the world who want to “run with the bulls” or more realistically “run away from” or be “run over by” the bulls.  Yes, we’re talking real big, one ton, horned, not interested in running with people, not of the Chicago variety type BULLS.

Monday [July 6], on the first day of the event, made famous by Ernest Hemmingway in The Sun Also Rises, the score in Pamplona, Spain was registered decisively Bulls 4 – Humans -0.  Fortunately no one including bulls were seriously injured although four people ended up in the hospital. News today, however, is not so good.  Sadly, a young 27 year old man was killed – this is a serious deal.

It all seems so ridiculous…yet, for whatever reason, this wild event fascinates me.  Why do it?  I guess it infuses thrill and excitement into what are essentially mundane lives.  As crazy as it sounds – I’d love to be in Pamplona to watch it all happen.  Of course I’d watch from a balcony well above the paved streets, the enraged bovines, and the frantic participants.

Thousands of people run with the bulls every year and apparently only 15 have died in the 85 year history of the event.  But isn’t 1 death enough to warn people against doing it?  

An ancient Proverb warns, “The way of the fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to adivce.”   Here’s my advice – don’t run with the bulls.

If you’ve never seen it, here’s the video from Monday’s non-fatal opening day run.

08
Jul
09

he’s an animal

Having both played and coached a lot of basketball over the years, I always thought my son would naturally want to play the sport. DSCN0031  When coaching boy’s high school ball, I’d bring him to the gym with me. He loved it. Truth be told, I even prayed for him to be at least 6′6″ — good size for a small foward. Well, God answered my prayer. At 17 years old, my son Corey is  6′7″ with a arm span of 6′10″. He, however, is not a basketball player but a volleyball player. This has been very difficult for me. Why? Because I’ve had to learn about a completely new sport!

volleyball championships

No disappoint here. It’s been exciting to see Corey grow, learn and increase in size and ability. As I write this, he is in Atlanta with his club team competing in the 2009 USA Junior Olympic Boy’s Volleyball Championships. Some colleges are now making recruitment contacts.

Will he play in college? I don’t know. I don’t care. I just love the kid. And as long as he shoots some hoops with me now and then…I’ll be ok.  He’s an animal!

03
Jul
09

One ugly creature

For reasons known primarily to the PCC crowd, I’ve been reading and studying about a lot of different anmials these days. Some might argue that all God’s creatures are beautiful. Well, I’m willing to say they are amazing but not beautiful. Just today I heard about the Scotoplane – aka the Sea Pig.

Honestly, if I were a pig – I’d be offended.

sea pig

02
Jun
09

New cultural jargon

As our culture changes so does our language – especially jargon [technical terminology or characteristic idiom of a group]. I’m always keeping my eyes and ears open for new words. Heard any lately? These are some I’ve recently come across.scrabble-letters

Fanboy: a superfan of a comic or film genre, as in: “He is a fanboy of all the original Batman comics.”

Gastric condom: An alternative to gastric bypass surgery in treating morbid obesity. The polymer sleeve is fed through the patient’s gullet and fixed below the stomach to prevent calorie absorption in the first 2 feet of small intestine.

Webinar: an online conference (web+seminar), as in “I am attending a webinar for bored bloggers willing to write on anything.”

Virtual Friday: the last day of work or school due to an extended weekend.

Equasy: Short for equine addiction syndrome, the clinical name for avid horsemanship.

Dark flow: An unexplained force drawing galaxy clusters toward a stretch of sky between the Vela and Centaurus constellations. As mysterious as dark energy and dark matter, dark flow may be the gravitational pull of other universes.

Virtual parent: An artificial intelligence that would converse with kids, mimicking military moms and dads who are off fighting. The US Defense Department is fielding proposals from software developers for a virtual parent able to respond tenderly when a child says, “I love you.”

Friendiligence: The amount of time it takes to maintain friend requests on social networks such as MySpace and Facebook. “I just don’t have time for all of this friendiligence!”

More recent words related to the political and financial scene include: change, bailout, maverick, and vetting

06
Mar
09

In case you were wondering…

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re: the random-ness

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